Just after viewing a movie (completely unrelated), gave a thought in my mind that: {Hate vs Love}
How far it is correct to hate someone or some kind of people when it comes with the UN-deserved act by someone alone?
Ya, I know that this is really a very deep thought if we think over
this concept completely. I wondered why people hate someone who loves
them a lot or someone whom should deserve in return too.
Well, it is realistic to hate someone for a cause faced earlier by
someone else or to hate some kind of people for a cause done by their
kind in the past. But the question still arises that why this happens in
one’s life.
For an instance let’s take a virtual story of a girl/boy (consider
yourself at this place) who hates a lot their opponent(s). At this
stage, a boy/girl (1st person) hating every girl/boy (2nd person) due to his past with a selfish one he had in his life, but, many of you would be thinking that:
Case 1 – First person is wrong if he/she hates every
second opposite person in the world and practically it is, as this
doesn’t makes sense that due to one bad person others don’t deserve
respect.
Case 2 – First person is absolutely correct if
he/she hates every second opposite person in the world and practically
it is, as due to one bad person others don’t deserve the trust being of
same kind.
So this is my question for that person who thinks that the 1st person is wrong if he/she hates the opposite because of a cause done by one? – For case 1
Why do you think that the first person is wrong if he/she
hates the opposite in that particular case when we all ourselves choose
to do the same when it turns to our turn? Puzzled, don’t be it is as
clean as a plain glass, because we all thinks in the same manner as they
did. How? Just for an instance, recall the worst thing you feel which
exists in your world or may be in this entire world. Now, start loving
it! What, do this seems stupidity to you or is this seems difficult to
you guys, may be any of the reason but you won’t regret this If you will
read the study of case 2. And yes, you might be right in some cases but
here you are wrong because they are doing the same thing just like
(eg.) an insect breed just because the reason was once you got trouble
with the insect of that kind. (plz, recall this insect as whatever you
hate most like lizard, spider, even lady bug).
So this is my question for that person who thinks that the 1st person is correct/right if he/she hates the opposite because of a cause done by one? – For case 2
Why do you think that the First person is correct/ right if
he/she hates the opposite in that particular case when we ourselves
choose the other things to do when it comes to our turn? Puzzled again,
well this is extremely different from case 1. Because, hating is not the
solution to any reason as far as I am concerned with my gained
knowledge yet. We always study and learn from our childhood that we
should not hate anybody for any reason and must learn to compromise with
what happened in the past. But, still many (mostly) have never resulted
out with what we learned at our childhood times may that’s the reason
we heard at that time from our elders that “you are just a small kid
currently, may be later”. Moreover, we have been taught to struggle and
fight against our fears, become brave and gain faith in ourselves to
face that again with a smile. I don’t know how many of us gains that but really that the prettiest thing in our life to see.
I also believe that the reason of hating the other for any reason
born due to one of its kind is our fear. Yes, I am correct my dear
friends that we fear of facing the same trouble or issues again in our
life which ruined our time period in the past. But, this world is for
brave ones
“Darr k aage jeet hai”
and every single person has the right to live a brave life. And you
must agree that if you are brave enough to face that again, it means
there is no reason to avoid other happiness of life which is getting
missed due to that fear which is always placed near happiness.
So finally, can you tell me you belong to which case?
“case 1 or case 2”
Moral: every new person is life should really see a new life of
yours, remember thinking of future makes you always happy (because we
see what we want to be) & Thinking of past brings almost tears in
our lives. Keep Smiling.
Any other suggestion would be appreciated from you and can be added below in the comment box.
Thanking you,
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